



Unfortunately in my experience OkCupid has become a bit of a dating ghost town. Because who doesn't enjoy sending a thoughtful message to someone who might never see it? However, OkCupid has pointed out that these changes did help lower the number of offensive messages and fake profiles people received, which might be a worthwhile trade-off. Online daters can still send a message - it just won't show up in the recipient's inbox unless you match. Profiles are a lot more in-depth than most online dating sites and if you answer a seemingly endless series of questions (much like a personality test), they will spit out a reasonable Match/Enemy percentage ratio on profiles to help you gauge compatibility based on interests.Ĭhanges in the last few years have made OkCupid a bit more like Tinder (they're owned by the same company), focusing more on swiping and eliminating the ability to message a user without matching with them first. In fact, one 31-year-old cis-het man put it to me like this: Once sex is engaged, my ability to communicate through verbal means goes away almost immediately. Join the fifth edition of ADNOC Abu Dhabi Marathon, taking place on 16th December 2023, including a marathon, relay team of 2, 10km, 5km and 2.5km fun run. In fact, I've been on OkCupid on and off, for roughly the last 11 years. My last serious relationship came from the OkCupid dating service. I have friends who've met their ideal match and even spouses through OkCupid.
